
Therapy for Anxiety
in Denver, Colorado
Are you a high-achieving woman who feels plagued by anxiety and overthinking?
Lately you’ve been finding yourself second-guessing every conversation you’ve had with your friends or coworkers. You’ve been laying awake at night, worrying that you’re not getting enough sleep, but finding impossible to wind down. Maybe you ruminate on not having enough saved for your retirement, even when the numbers say otherwise. You’ve been feeling overwhelmed and instead of slowing down, you keep saying “yes” and adding more to your plate. And at the end of each day you feel exhausted, burnt out and ready to stop “doing”, but your brain won’t seem to let you.
All you want is for your overactive brain to give you some peace.
But no matter what you try, nothing seems to work.
You don’t have to live with constant overthinking and self-doubt. Therapy for anxiety can help.
What is Anxiety?
Anxiety is an extremely common (and human!) experience that most people have from time to time in their lives. Anxiety is actually an adaptive response that developed in humans to alert us about dangers in our environment. In small doses, it can be really helpful for motivating us to prepare, plan and meet our responsibilities. A mild to moderate amount of anxiety can allow us to find success in our relationships, jobs and hobbies. However, we no longer live in a world where we are experiencing a constant barrage of threats to our survival. Sometimes our brain can confuse everyday stressors (like being late for an appointment, misspeaking at a work event or feeling rejected by a friend) with more imminent dangers. When this happens we can feel more intensely anxious, fearful and on edge. When anxiety starts to feel constant, overwhelming or all-consuming, therapy for anxiety can help.
Therapy for anxiety may be right for you if you experience things like:
Overthinking and second-guessing
Replaying conversations in your head over and over again
Experiencing thoughts that feel repetitive or intrusive
Convincing yourself of the worst-case outcome for situations
Laying awake at night feeling your mind racing or worrying about the future
Feeling like there is a clock ticking throughout your day, holding you accountable to maximum productivity at all times
Feeling physical tension in your body like stiffness in your neck or back
Frequent stomach or GI upset
Avoiding opening emails or messages where you anticipate feelings of stress or rejection
Feeling symptoms of a panic attack like heart racing, tightness in your chest, sweating, overwhelming feelings of dread
Feeling pressure to constantly people-please
Difficulty focusing
Noticing yourself feeling more irritable or short with others in your life
Difficulty allowing yourself to relax or have fun
Fixating on what others need or expect from you and difficulty saying “no” or letting them down
Putting pressure on yourself to be perfect, feeling like nothing you do is good enough or feeling constantly “behind”
Avoiding situations that you find stressful or anxiety-inducing
How Anxiety Therapy in Denver Can Help
It is not your fault that you feel like this - society sets unrealistic expectations for women that are impossible to meet, which is probably a big part of why you feel so anxious all of the time. The good news is, healing is possible! I help clients overcome their anxiety to feel less anxious and stressed, and more grounded in their lives. Here are some ways in which anxiety therapy can help you heal:
Anxiety therapy will teach you tools to cope with how your anxiety shows up day-to-day and a self-care routine to physically calm down your nervous system
Anxiety therapy will help you experience less overthinking and anxiety spirals utilizing tools from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) to
Anxiety therapy will teach you to rethink the way you respond to stressful situations through mindfulness-based strategies including learning tools to be feel more present in your life, be kinder to yourself and accept all parts of yourself
Anxiety therapy will teach you to better tolerate discomfort that arises from setting boundaries and saying “no” and feel more in control of how you express your emotions with skills from Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT)
Anxiety therapy will help you to dig deeper and draw connections between your past experiences and the pressures and expectations that you put on yourself in the present utilizing concepts from psychodynamic psychotherapy
Anxiety therapy will connect you to relevant books, articles and tools that can help you to get a deeper understanding of your condition and make progress in between sessions
Overcome Anxiety in Denver, Colorado
Through therapy for anxiety in Denver, I will help you to feel calmer and more at peace in your body. You will learn to worry less and trust your decisions without so much second-guessing. You will learn to hold compassion for yourself instead of judging yourself or putting yourself down. You will begin to make decisions based on your own values rather than fear. You will start to confront your anxieties and embrace your strengths.
Anxiety Therapy for Specific Challenges
Anxiety Therapy for High Achievers
High achieving women often seem like they have it all together - status at work, a committed partner, and surrounded by friends. On the inside, they often struggle with anxiety, perfectionism and people-pleasing - never feeling enough, no matter how hard they try. Therapy for anxiety can help high achieving women to hold more compassion for themselves, feel empowered to say “no” and heal from a fear of failure. Learn more about anxiety therapy for high achievers at Root to Rise Therapy in Denver.
Anxiety Therapy for Parents
Whether you’re a new parent struggling to adapt, a postpartum mom coping with crippling anxiety, or a seasoned parent who is struggling to find balance between everything in their lives, therapy for anxiety can help. Therapy for anxiety can help parents make sense of their competing identities, heal from burnout and make space in their lives for their own needs. Learn more about postpartum anxiety therapy, anxiety therapy for new parents, pregnancy anxiety therapy and anxiety therapy for moms at Root to Rise Therapy in Denver.
Anxiety Therapy for Cultural Identity
Confusion around culture and identity can be a big trigger of anxiety - humans are genetically programmed to want to belong to a group, and the fear of rejection or being an “outsider” can feel very intense. Belonging to a group has been necessary for human’s survival, and we are wired to feel anxiety about feeling rejected or being “in-between”. Anxiety therapy for cultural identity can help you finally feel seen, understood, and learn to make space for the different aspects of your identity that may sometimes feel at odds with each other. Learn more about anxiety therapy for cultural identity at Root to Rise Therapy in Denver.
Anxiety Therapy for Athletes
Many athletes struggle with perfectionism and anxiety, in constant pursuit of a better time, personal record or championship title. While some level of anxiety can be healthy to drive us to succeed, it can quickly become out of balance and lead to obsession, negative self-talk and ultimately harm your performance. Anxiety therapy for athletes can help you heal from perfectionism, go easier on yourself and find joy in sports again. Learn more about anxiety therapy for athletes at Root to Rise Therapy in Denver.
Women’s Anxiety Treatment in Denver
You don’t have to live with constant anxiety, overthinking and self-induced pressure. Anxiety therapy can help you to be more present in your life, get out of your head and make time for the things that matter to you.
Therapy for Anxiety FAQs
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In short, yes! If you are reading this page, I take it that you are looking for some additional support in managing your anxiety, and the strategies that you’ve tried to implement on your own just aren’t cutting it anymore. Taking the first step on your therapy journey can be scary, but I am here to support you through it. And the stakes are low - if you try therapy and find it isn’t helpful to you, you can stop at any time.
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Research shows that Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is the most effective treatment for anxiety. I utilize CBT and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT - a type of CBT) heavily in my practice, which focuses on acceptance, living according to your values and incorporating mindfulness-based strategies into your daily life, in addition to changing your relationship to unhelpful thinking patterns. Psychodynamic psychotherapy is also evidence-based for treating anxiety, and helps you get to the root cause of anxiety by reflecting on your past experiences and figuring out how they are impacting you in the present.
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If you are a high-achieving woman, you very well may have high functioning anxiety. While anxiety can be totally debilitating for some people, for others it bubbles beneath the surface while pushing you to maintain a calm and collected exterior. This can look like perfectionism or people-pleasing, both of which result in lots of positive feedback from others, even if you are struggling internally. If this is you, you are my people! I can help.
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Overthinking and anxiety can impact not only our mental state, but the way we feel physically as well. In fact, sometimes these aches and pains are what finally push people to get treatment for their anxiety. Anxiety can show up in the form of muscle tension (back / shoulder / neck pain are most common), headaches, digestive upset, difficulty falling or staying asleep, or sometimes even nightmares. If you are having these physical symptoms, it is always wise to first visit your primary care doctor for a checkup. But when there is no medical cause, anxiety is often the culprit.
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Yes! The transition to parenthood is filled with new responsibilities, struggles and constant adjustments. Anxiety is par for the course for many new parents. Therapy for anxiety can help you to feel less overwhelmed, more grounded and connect to your values as a new parent.
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I get it, starting anxiety therapy can feel daunting, especially if it’s your first time. For many high achievers, asking for help feels really, really hard - or maybe even like an admission of failure. A different way of looking at it is that asking for help requires a lot of courage - think of it as a challenge! If you’re on the fence, it is probably worth reaching out to a Denver anxiety therapist to get some of your questions answered - knowledge is power. If you’re not ready to give it a go yet, my pages on tips to overcome anxiety and present moment awareness have some helpful anxiety coping tools.
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If you’re living the busy life of a high achiever, anxiety therapy may just feel like one more thing that doesn’t fit in the schedule. A lot of people aren’t aware that you are entitled to reasonable accommodations for a mental health condition by the federal government - this includes leave for therapy appointments. If you can’t find the time outside of work, talk to your manager or HR department to figure out how you can block time for your appointments. If therapy during work isn’t an option, try looking at your schedule to figure out what else in your life can be moved or put on pause to make your mental health a priority.
My Denver-based therapy practice specializes in helping high-achieving women overcome their anxiety and perfectionism. To start your anxiety therapy journey, follow these simple steps
Step 1
Contact Victoria
Step 2
Meet with Victoria, an anxiety therapist for an intake session
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Get started on your journey towards taking anxiety out of the driver’s seat and start living your life!