Therapy for Overwhelmed Moms: Coping with Anxiety and Stress
You love your kids… but you’re so tired.
Not just physically tired, though that’s part of it. You’re tired of the constant worrying. Tired of tuning into everyone else’s needs and feeling like yours always fall last. Tired of holding everything together with a smile when, inside, you feel like you’re unraveling.
If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. So many moms feel anxious, depleted, and overwhelmed from all the pressures and responsibilities that they juggle - but that doesn’t mean you have to stay stuck in survival mode.
Instead, imagine a life where you wake up feeling rested - maybe not every day, but enough to notice a difference. Your mind isn’t instantly spinning with a to-do list; instead, there’s a quiet confidence that you can handle whatever the day brings. You respond to your child’s meltdowns with more patience, and the guilt that used to follow you around has softened. You feel more connected to yourself, more present with your family, and less like you're just getting through the day.
You might feel like achieving this is impossible. But there is a way out of the crushing weight of mom stress - and that way out is through therapy. Therapy will help you process your daily stress, regulate your nervous system and learn tools to support yourself emotionally, mentally and physically. Therapy will help you better understand your triggers, and process the unresolved emotions from your own childhood that inevitably get brought up in parenting. Therapy will help you move through mom rage, identity crises and burnout to find a way back to caring for your needs - because you deserve it.
In this post we’ll talk about how therapy can help overwhelmed moms get a hold on their anxiety, and feel grounded and confident again.
Why So Many Moms Feel Stressed and Anxious
As moms, we often feel like we should be handling it all. After all, so many other moms make it look effortless, right?
But that’s part of the problem.
There’s a silent epidemic happening behind closed doors - one that isn’t often captured by the mom-fluencers you might follow on social media. Women are feeling overwhelmed, anxious, and emotionally drained by the relentless demands of motherhood, and in today’s world they’re expected to do more than ever before. Being the primary parent, working full time, maybe even being the breadwinner, juggling the mental load of family to-dos and assuming the role of personal therapist for everyone in the family - it never ends. Whether you’re a new mom adjusting to life postpartum, a working mom stretched too thin, or a stay-at-home mom trying to manage the emotional weight of a caregiving role with no “off” hours - this kind of chronic stress can take a serious toll on your well-being.
Let’s talk about a few common reasons why moms feel overwhelmed:
Mental Load: You’re constantly keeping track of doctor’s appointments, groceries, school emails, birthdays, meal planning, emotional needs… the list is endless.
Pressure to Be Perfect: Social media and cultural norms often promote the myth of the “supermom” who does it all and loves every moment.
Loss of Identity: As they transition to motherhood, many women struggle with losing touch with who they are outside of being a mom.
Lack of Support: Whether it’s an absent partner, distant family, or just a lack of community, moms often feel like they’re carrying everything on their own.
Anxiety and Guilt: Intrusive thoughts, constant worry, or fear of making mistakes can spiral into anxiety and panic - often paired with a heavy dose of mom guilt.
If you see yourself in these patterns, know that it’s all-too normal, and not a sign of personal failure. Instead, it’s a sign that you’re not getting the support you need - and therapy for overwhelmed moms can help.
What Anxiety Looks Like in Motherhood
Anxiety doesn’t always look like panic attacks or crippling fear. It often hides in plain sight, especially in mothers who are constantly “doing” - caring, cleaning, planning, and managing without pause. You may be so busy that you aren’t making space in your life to even “feel” your anxiety - instead it sneaks up in other ways like sleeplessness, angry outbursts or difficulty concentrating.
Here are some ways anxiety might be showing up in your daily life:
Overthinking everything, from what your child eats to how you handled a tantrum.
Feeling on edge and irritated by small things, or explosive episodes of mom rage that catch you by surprise. .
Racing thoughts that keep you up at night.
Physical symptoms like tightness in your chest, jaw clenching, or digestive issues.
Constant guilt—for yelling, for needing space, or for not “doing it right.”
Difficulty relaxing, even when everything is handled.
If these signs resonate with you, it may be time to look more into how anxiety therapy for moms can help.
The Weight of Being Always “On”
For moms, it can feel like there’s no off-switch. You’re the first one up in the morning, mentally planning the day, and you go to sleep at night turning over in your mind what still didn’t get done.
When you’re constantly “on”, responding to one crisis after another, your nervous system goes into survival moment, getting stuck in a chronic state of fight-or-flight. This can lead to:
Sleep problems
Emotional dysregulation (hello, mom rage)
Depression
Physical health issues
Disconnection from your partner or kids
No one wants to feel like this. It’s not selfish to want to feel better - it’s necessary.
How Therapy Can Help You Find Your “Mom Calm”
One of the most powerful benefits of therapy for overwhelmed moms is that it gives you a dedicated space to breathe - to show up as you are, without judgment. To process the mental chaos and emotional exhaustion that you might be too afraid to say out loud anywhere else. Yes, being a parent is inherently chaotic - but it doesn’t have to feel out of control all the time. It is possible to connect to moments of calm as a mom. Here are some ways that therapy can help you feel less overwhelmed and more grounded in your day-to-day:
Receive Validation
Many moms come to therapy feeling ashamed of their struggles - especially if you’re part of an in-person or online community where it doesn’t feel safe or “normal” to talk about them. Therapy offers a compassionate space where you can share your whole truth and have it met with empathy and validation, not judgment. In therapy you don’t need to justify how stressed you feel or minimize your emotions - you get to be fully seen for who you are as a mom, woman and human being.
Get to the Root of Your Stress
Is your anxiety fueled by perfectionism? Past trauma? A lack of boundaries? Therapy can help uncover the deeper patterns driving your stress - so you can change your relationship to the patterns and past experiences holding you back, and start to break free from them.
Learn Tools to Regulate Your Nervous System
Therapy will teach you practical tools to calm both your body and mind when stress and overwhelm take over. In therapy you will learn relaxation strategies, grounding techniques and mindfulness-based tools to reconnect with your body and slow down when things feel out of control.
Rebuild Your Identity
You’re more than a mom - but in life’s most chaotic moments, it can be hard to remember that. Therapy can help you reconnect to the parts of yourself that have been lost or buried by your motherhood duties - your passions, your drive and your needs. Together, we’ll help you rebuild a sense of self that includes, but isn’t limited to, your role as a mom.
Set Healthy Boundaries
So many moms who feel overwhelmed struggle with people-pleasing and knowing when to say “no”. Therapy can help build your confidence in setting boundaries that protect your time and energy, so that there’s some of you left at the end of the week for the things that really matter.
Change Your Inner Dialogue
If your inner voice is harsh and critical, you’re not going to feel good about anything you do. Therapy can help you change your inner dialogue so that you can start to show yourself grace, practice self-compassion and treat yourself with the same kindness and understanding that you would a loved one.
What to Expect From Anxiety Therapy for Moms
If you’ve never been to therapy before (or even if you have!) it’s normal to wonder what the process will look like. Every therapist has a unique approach - as a therapist for moms in Denver, I use a blend of psychodynamic, cognitive-behavioral and mindfulness-based tools to help you stop feeling controlled by your stress and make space for taking care of yourself. Here’s what you can typically expect from a therapy session:
Space to Be Honest: You won’t have to pretend everything is fine. Therapy is your space to be real about how hard things feel.
Collaborative Goals: We’ll work together to identify what you want to feel, shift, or experience differently - and come up with concrete steps to get there.
Practical Tools: You’ll gain techniques for calming anxiety, managing stress, and shifting unhelpful thought patterns.
Emotional Insight: Through deeper exploration, you’ll start to recognize what’s underneath your overwhelm - like unmet needs, unrealistic expectations, or childhood wounds. Together, we’ll work to create a more empowering narrative and identify how to get your needs met.
Permission to Prioritize Yourself: We’ll work together on giving yourself permission to prioritize your needs, and identify what kinds of barriers have been getting in the way.
Therapy for Stressed-Out Moms in Denver, Littleton, Boulder and throughout Colorado
At my Denver-based practice, I work with moms through all phases of motherhood - new moms, seasoned moms, single moms, working moms, stay-at-home moms, and every version in between. If you’re feeling anxious, irritable, emotionally drained, or just plain tired of holding it all together alone, therapy can help. Whether you’re struggling with intrusive thoughts, self-criticism, perfectionism, mom guilt, or are feeling crushed by the weight of the mental load, you deserve space to be supported.
So many women delay reaching out for help because they feel like they “should” be able to handle it all on their own. But being a mom shouldn’t mean sacrificing your mental health. You can love your children deeply and feel completely drained by the responsibilities of parenthood. You can be a devoted parent and need help managing your stress. Both can be true.
You don’t have to do everything - you just have to do the next right thing for you. And sometimes, that next step is knowing when to ask for help.
Ready to Start Therapy for Overwhelmed Moms?
If you’re a mom looking for support to feel less overwhelmed, stressed-out and depleted, you’re in the right place.
Therapy isn’t going to make everything perfect - but it can help you feel like yourself again. At Root to Rise Therapy, we offer a warm, compassionate, and down-to-earth space where you can feel seen, supported, and empowered to make meaningful changes. Together, we’ll help you get out of survival mode and into a place of greater peace, confidence, and ease. Let’s talk about how therapy can support you. Click here to schedule a free consultation.
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Other Services at Root to Rise Therapy:
Other mental health services at Root to Rise Therapy include Therapy for Anxiety, Therapy for Perfectionism, Therapy for People-Pleasing, Cultural Identity Counseling, ADHD Therapy, Counseling for Moms and Postpartum Counseling. I see clients located in Colorado, New York and New Jersey. Contact me to learn more about how I can help you overcome anxiety and reclaim your life!
